Dating a girl with an std
If in the past you tended to start a new relationship with sex, you now might want to change your approach.
It might be better to break the news about herpes to someone who has already grown attached to you.
i've done it before, my ex of 2 years had HSV-2, and she was caring enough to tell me before we had sex. i got tested every 2 months, just to stay current and clear.i don't know, i think that it shouldn't stop one from dating someone with an STD, only because it's about the person, not the virus.
Now that you know you have genital herpes, you're out of the dating game, right? There's no reason to stop looking for love and fun.
We’re not talking about the casual one night hook-up here, rather, the continuation (or the beginning) of intimate relations with your partner after finding out they have an STD.
I know this guy that actually married a girl with the herps.
He didn't have it himself at the time, but he didn't care and accepted her with open arms. He's a better man than me that's for sure, because I don't think I can date someone with the herps, even if I was the meat between a Mila and Natalie lesbian sandwich.
Follow two rules: First, don't wait until after having sex.
Second, don't wait until you're just about to have sex -- in which case the attraction may be too strong for either of you to think rationally and act responsibly.